IT was my first trip to city with the shores. So obviously I had to b excited. It was 29Th October, 2008 we landed in Goa. Went to the resort, things were as normal as they could have been.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
BRUSH WITH DEATH IN GOA SEA!
IT was my first trip to city with the shores. So obviously I had to b excited. It was 29Th October, 2008 we landed in Goa. Went to the resort, things were as normal as they could have been.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Addition To INDIA: A LOW COST COUNTRY!
FIGHT AND FIGHT BACK.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
ROAD FOR LIFE.....
LAYING ROAD AHEAD
This is the rough presentation of what i interacted with my school's (Mira Model School, Janak Puri, New Delhi) 9th class students on 9th April, 2009. I met them to tell them about my experiences from 9th Std tIll completing Ll.B.. I wanted them to learn from my mistakes and lead ahead without doing same mistakes in their life's 10yrs to come.
What I found that these children were as unaware as i was; these children though born in the faster world than I but are still as confused as I was; They, like my generation, are living withcommunication gap with their parents.
I hope that my litle effort is of some use to my younger brothers ans sisters.
Here it goes (as raw as it was, coz it was only for my refernce):-
Listen or your words will make you deaf
Introduction: this meeting shall be known as INTERACTION
v Introduction of interaction
v My introduction-
ü name,
ü qualification,
ü marks (in
ü Profession- being an advocate as per my nature.
v What I was, how I was at studies. How I decided to study.(tell about 4th)
My 1 hour is investment. Sharing experience of my 10 yrs from your age to save you from those confusions
Return: 200 hrs right now, 5yrs* 200 students=1000yrs
Experience is the name which we give to our mistakes.
Start with the story of King Akbar.
Best friends are your parents
v Parents are always in our favour.
v There experience is much more than that of ours.
v Become Friends with them.
DECLARATION: YOU ALL ARE MATURED NOW.
v When you react as elders you are told you are kids and vice versa
v Age of transformation
v Turning point
v But am declaring that you all are MATURE now. And prove that you are grown up now.
ü Handle tasks,
ü Be more responsible… etc
MAIN TOPIC
BE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR LIFE GOALS
Start with the story of Kautilya/Chanakya, established biggest empire: Magadh Empire.
v 1% of you are aware of what you want to become 40% know that they want to become something. 20% know that they don’t know what they have to become and rest/majority of you do not care about it “WHATEVER” attitude
v So Decide now. (Charu’s story- NIMHANS)
v God sent you here with a purpose.
v Make sure that thing as your career what you like to do.
Do what you love to else you will be forced to love what you do
v Identify your interest area and try to make career out of it.
v Don’t do what world (parents, peer group etc) want you to.
v Its time to think how to pursue your goals.
v Make a broad picture in your mind and chalk out a plan to move in a direction to achieve it.
v Imagine a road… whichever you like, as a road to your career. Now you have to move on that road.
v Now have patience. Don’t change your path. There may be success or failure but don’t change your way. There may be ups and downs but don’t loose heart.
v FAILURE IS THE BEST LESSON TO SUCCESS BUT IT’S NOT MANDATORY.
v There is lot of competition, but its where there is lot of crowd. So do something Different.
v Don’t walk behind crowd make your own roads.
v Be Educated as you all are already literate(as per govt)
Successful people don’t do different things, they do things differently
Success is a journey and not destination.
How to go about your career/ goals
v Chose your career with a prospect of 7 yrs from now.
v Start gathering information about it as per your need, because you understand yourself more than anyone else.
v Ask your seniors, parents, teachers about current market scenario and what is it expected to be after a few years.
v Work hard and smart for it.
TV channels/shows to be watched
v Doesn’t watch shows like roadies it means sadak chhap, etc. they are showing you wrong path wrong world to earn money. They have nothing to do with you, your career or your family.
v Instead watch discovery channel, comedy serials. They will help you to improve yourself.
v Once I was listening to then president Hon’ble Sh. APJ Abdul Kalam, that he do not have TV at home.
v Movies like WATER, Gandhi my father, Khuda Ke liye..
ANGER IS A TYPE OF ENERGY: USE IT
v Try this: when you are angry: you take up a book and you will realize that you are reading very fast.
OVERALL DEVELOPMENT IS MOST IMP
v Studies are imp but not “only” imp
v Extra curricular activities,
v Read newspaper, books
v It will pay in life.
v It very important to be aware of current world situation.
v Be a responsible and aware citizen.
Books are your friends
v Believe in god, believe in nature. NATURE is the SUPREME: written in Shimad Bhagwat Geeta.
v Believe in yourself
v Learn to say no.
v Acceptance opens your doors to learning so never step back from accepting your fault.
v Read about Gautam Budhha (middle path)
DREAM
v Biggest problem is that people don’t dream. If they dream they don’t follow them.
v It’s not bad to dream BIG.
v Any big achievement starts with a small thing called as dream…
SO DREAM
Dreams are not those which you see when you sleep rather Dreams are those which don’t let you sleep.
It’s not a matter of worry that you set your target so high that you missed it; rather it’s dangerous that you set your target low and you achieved it.
TAKE OUT TIME TO TALK TO YOURSELF
v Only you know yourself best.
v Biggest problem with today is people don’t have time to talk to themselves. They have lost touch with their inner soul.
v Self guidance and motivation are the best one.
v Ultimately it’s you who have to decide about your life.
HEALTH
v Health is most important. Keep fit. For that:
o go out and play
o eat healthy food
o exercise is must
o NO SMOKING/ DRINKING- TELL ABOUT DAD.
To end with:
What MATURED people do is:
Never compare yourself with anyone, if you do you insult yourself.
Try to solve your problems on your own with guidance of your parents and teachers.
Difference b/w success and failure is:
that in success things were done exactly done correct and in failure things were done nearly correct.
Its you who can understand yourself the BEST.
Always be ready to learn…. Now it’s a new beginning.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
ROD SPARED, CHILD SPOILED.. NOW, NO EXAMINATION AND CONFIDENCE LOST!
SPARE THE ROD AND SPOILED THE CHILD!!! My maternal Grand father (Nanaji), Ltae Sh. D.D. Dhawan, who was a gold medalist teacher, scholar, author, mathematician, founder of school among others, used to say this. He was a strong believer of this school of thought. Even I am believer of this school of thought.
I would like to state that I am not in favour of teachers turning into devils and beating child like anything, but I am stating that education and rod go hand in hand. Education is a Wide term much more than literacy. Its teachers' poised duty to educate a child and make him a responsible citizens and rod has lot to do with it.
I thank my teachers to keep rod ready for me hose beating has a role in my making. I have seen in my real life what wonders can be done for child with this rod. There was a friend of mine(am not naming him) he was below average student. his father walked into our coaching institute when he was promoted to class 10Th to ask the teacher to make his child clear this 10Th class exams with at least 50% marks. He passed 9Th class with merely 40% marks. And our teacher assuming her responsibility with the help of her extra efforts, caring tone at times and being rude at other times, using scale as the rod made him clear his 10Th class examinations with 58% marks.
This is just one example.
Now Mr. Kapil Sibal a very senior advocate (so my Respected Senior too) and currently HRD minister with Govt. Of India has come up with a new plan making single board to impart secondary level education throughout India and making this examination (10Th class) optional for the students.
I support my senior's 1st plan. But with due respect for his thoughts would like to state that I don't agree to his SECOND scheme to phase out/make optional the class 10Th examination.
If I talk about me as a student who appeared for the class 10Th exam in the year 2000, I would like to mention that I didn't find this exam as a stressful exam. It was just like any other exam which we were taking in some other school for a change. Even if these exams are tagged to be full of stress exams, then this stress is necessary. This stress will lay down 1st step in preparing child for handling stress through his life. LIFE IS NOT A CAKEWALK! Life has to lived up in a very alert way. It is filled with lot of decisions taken under stressful situation. Rather life continues only if it is able to clear the stressful situations in a successful manner which is possible only because of our decisions.
Now a days everyone is after MBA, MBA is all about preparing a candidate for working under stressful situations. If a child is made to live easier life how will he sustain MBA curriculum and moreover Curriculum of life and his job/business/profession??
In the recent past class 10Th and 12Th examinations have been made very easy. 20% to 30% marks are in the hands of school teachers by way of internal assessment, submitting projects etc. and for remaining 70% to 80% 3 hrs and 15 mins are granted to child as compared to our times when there were no internal assessment etc and for 100 marks exam we were granted 3 hrs in total. All this is already reducing education quality and now above all this even exams are planned to e phased out.
So I request Hon'ble HRD minister not to make these exams optional neither phase them out. Rather they should be more efficient and of better quality which produces strong human beings who are in turn have to run this nation. Otherwise there will be weak citizens who will be young, impatient and unable to take any firm decision for themselves and for nation's too.
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
AUSTRALIA BEING AUSTIN.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
INDIA: A LOW COST COUNTRY!
Friday, June 5, 2009
MIS- ROUTING through DIS-INVESTMENT_____!!
Newly formed government is about to take the route ofDIS-INVESTMENT. As already defined, govt is planning to sell its shares or bring an IPO in state owned entities, also known as PSUs(public Sector Undertakings). Now somes the issue of NEED, now we see that what is the reason behind this decision for this GOVT who runs trillion $ economy. On analysing the above mentioned reasons we ge to know that our govt is under huge debt, which is Fiscal Deficit.
This fiscal deficit (as per govt. estimates ) is approx. 6% of Indian Trillion $ (10 lakh crore Rupees) economy i.e. Rs. 3.3 Trillion or Rs. 3 lakh 30 thousand crores. This high fiscal deficit has been finalced by loan at higher rate of interest which is around 10% pa. So Interest amounting to be on this huge amount would be:
Rs.33000/- (Rs. Thirty three thousand crores) pa.